Saturday, December 01, 2007

The Random compliment

The other day Brian and I went to a coffee house in town. We were the only people in there for most of the time. Just before we left, an older woman came in. She was very pleasant in her exchange with the waitress and had a very warm and comforting face. We stood up to leave and I headed to the bathroom. She stopped me on my way and said, "You have the most beautiful hair". I thanked her, of course, and we left. I thought about that for the rest of the evening and how nice it was. It made me feel so good about myself that a stranger would pay me such a random compliment. I wondered why this doesn't happen more often. I see people all of the time that I could say nice things to but I don't. I think it to myself and move on. But something as small as that could change someone's day or outlook that they have about themselves. I have decided that I am going to make a point of paying compliments to strangers when I feel that they are necessary. I think it's a great way to make someone smile.

3 comments:

Rusty Ward said...

Why kathy, that was such a nice blog entry.

Erik said...

I often wonder why people don't stop to pay me more compliments. I think I'll ask people for them from now on so I can have my day brightened. I'm going to get aggressive with this. I'll let you know how this turns out.

Katharina said...

Erik, I think that is a great idea. You should try using brute force. It may help.